Style Confidence

 Introduction:
I'm Kela Norman a fashion designer/accesoriesdesigner/stylist. The purpose of this blog is to enhance the fashion sense of every woman regardless of age or race. I have included in this blog tips on being a fashionista. My inspiration comes from my mom who has to look her best even while she is cooking! I hope you enjoy!
Love,
Kela

CONFIDENCE

Everyday from this day forward practice this exercise in the mirror.
Say to your self " I am ultimately sexy! Today I will conquer the world whether I have a good or bad day! I love myself! I am a beautiful fashionista! " Now give yourself a big smile. ;)
 Confidence is important because if you don't believe in yourself why should someone else? A confident woman is a sexy woman! Confidence + Sexy = Style

Whenever you are dressing for your day if you don't feel confident or sexy choose another outfit! Your attitude about your outfit will effect the rest of your day. If you have the time plan your outfit the night before so you will have time to try it on and choose the right shoes and accessories! This way you can start your day with CONFIDENCE ;)
 Another way to keep CONFIDENCE is to make sure you have breath freshener like mint,gum, or spay. Also keep a mirror handy so you can check for minor flaws like food in your teeth,eye/nose boogers,lipstick stains on the teeth, facial stains etc. Lip gloss,balm,and mascara are also basic necessities to keep handy just in case you have to take an impulse picture. Tissue and perfume are needed to wipe your nose if needed and a quick squirt of freshness!
 Another element of CONFIDENCE is knowledge. Try to read the newspaper,books,magazines,and anything on the internet so that you will be able to communicate effectively with others! With basic information of current events this will give you an extra boost of self esteem.
 Self Praise is also a form of CONFIDENCE! Learn to praise yourself for the good things that you do. Celebrate your accomplishments and all the good things that have happened in your life. The energy you put out will be the energy that you receive. So if you stay positive even when things are going bad, there will be a good outcome. AVOID negative people for energy has the form to transform and bounce from person to person. Exit the conversation,room, or area, this will give you time to work on your to do list or any projects that you need to complete.
 Compliments to others can help build someone else's confidence. One may be feeling unsure about a recent style decision such as changing their hair color or trying to wear a new item like a dress in stead of pants. Then you come along and compliment their style and it helps to boost their confidence. So not only should receive compliments but you can also issue them as needed.
 Pick a topic and practice speaking about it in the mirror! What is your facial expression? Do you look confident or unsure? If your an introvert try practicing in the mirror until you feel comfortable enough to iniate a conversation. Once you have mastered this process,it will become second nature to you!
 Ever wonder why some plus size women wear everything a thin woman wears..... CONFIDENCE! In their mind they look just as good as the thinner woman. This makes them feel sexy. If you are a plus size woman reading this, I was just giving an example! Most men find confidence sexy! In later articles, I will focus on dressing for your body type so that everyone will be able to walk around with confidence style and class!